We have no doubt that children steal because of unwillingness to show themselves and respectively to be apprehended as good, happy, responsible people, and theft is that easy way, by means of which they keep a position, safe for them, bad and irresponsible.
Almost everything from this that is stolen by children, they can receive in other ways, which, however, assume honesty and, perhaps, skill and by that characterize them as answering for themselves.
Theft, on the contrary proves that they bad for this reason they make thefts.. . . . . . Читать полностью -->
This child your own inner self.
And now wonder, whether you gave to this child as much of time, cares and attention, how many gave to other people of whom you care?
It does not seem whether to you that in some sense you are similar to the stepmother from the fairy tale: after all you treat your internal child as with the Cinderella, and prefer to him other people in the same way how the stepmother preferred it stepsisters?
Make the decision now: than you had to be engaged in life, you will care of your own inner self.. . . . . . Читать полностью -->
He grabbed again the vekderko and ran to the yard.
Went that beyond jokes!
The sun right there hid, became cold, children ran up at once.
To Prishlos and Kostya again home to go.
Came, sat down on a window sill and looks out of the window on the yard.
And there fine weather!
Kostya nearly began to cry for offense!
Mother, well why from me the sun hides?
And you as think?
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Sara turned to me and whether I took an interest, become angry about her.
I did not become angry about Sara, but was revolted with her act.
I repeated that tools here in order that they with mother could express the feelings.
If we become angry about it, we can show it by means of music, but not a manhandling.
We finished occupation, having silently said goodbye with each other.
After that occupations I had to understand already the feelings.
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And, if you rekshit to regale on a pie or rolls, it will be better if you prepare them from natural products and together with the kid.
The fairy tale about the country of sweet rolls Marina Mosina Once the grandmother brought to Vasya two big sweet rolls with poppy.
Vasya ate one and began to ask the second.
And mother speaks: Will be enough.
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Such freedom allows nablyu to the giver to see understanding limits for each age.
On the business quite so we came to understanding that children eightnine years can understand operations with the square root which they saw how children dvenadtsacarry out tifourteen years.
In the same way we noticed that eightyearold children can be interested in algebra.
Development the child depends not only on his age, but also from vozmozh to Nosta to observe the world surrounding it.
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The differentiating line between these two perio reminds the lady Leta's waters the rivers of oblivion in Greek mythologies.
It is very difficult for us to remember something from this that happened to us till three years.
And it is even more difficult till two years.
Psychoanalysts all means try to extend the old memoirs, but usually to anybody not in power to remember that was till third year of life.
Whether it is possible to imagine more dramatic situation: about time the formation from nothing that can tell even, to whom it happened?. . . . . . Читать полностью -->